Heartbreak.It’s a tough thing to go through. Isn’t it? Definitely YES! I think everybody gets their heart broken at some point in their lives. I’ve been there.You’ve been there.We’ve all been there…Maybe for different reasons our hearts gotten broken— failing at something,not getting what you want,getting defeated,having and letting a person that you love break it,name whatever you want that gets your heart broken.This time,let me talk about having and letting a person break it.

Some of you might know that I’ve had my heart broken by a past relationship. (Well,his my first love,my first and only boyfriend in my 25 years of existence… I know right,napakaboring ng lovelife ko kasi one man woman ako). Some of you might not know that my relationship with my ex took over almost 5 years after we’ve both decided to end it up. Yes,I’ll admit it,it hurts at first.When the person you thought you will be spending the rest of your life didn’t do anything to save your relationship.I thought he was the guy I was going to marry (Coz’ when I decided na sagutin siya, the time when he courted me, I promise to myself that he will be the first and the last man in my life)pero if it’s not the will of God hahanap at hahanap siya ng way na di kayo magkakatuluyan eh.Thanks for the guidance of the almighty,since I have my principle ,I didn’t gave up everything. (Masyadong hahaba at pagdedebatehan natin if I’d talk about purity).Nevertheless,gaano man kasakit ang naramdaman ko,kailangan ko pa ring mag-move on.Life goes on!(Napakapositive ko lang ano?hahahaha) All I know and I always put in my mind is that,heartbreaks shouldn’t stop me from living.

At first,I thought I would never be able to move on from a heartbreak.That was my first heartbreak in my entire life being and I didn’t know what to do. I thought I was going to grow old alone and wouldn’t find a man ever,but I’ve moved on and I realize there are so many other man in the world and those are some of the moments I laugh at when I reminisce about them now.

Anything of value takes time,and something as important as creating a relationship takes much time.(Huwag susunggab sunggab kaagad,sa una masaya,puro kilig,sa huli iiyak iyak,maglalasing at magiging pariwara).I’m not generalizing but I bet this is some of the real scenario happening to those broken hearted.

Everybody falls in love.Falling in love is part of living,as well as getting our hearts broken.(Kaya ayaw na ayaw ko sanang mainlove kasi alam ko masasaktan at masasaktan ako)*sigh*

But what is True Love? For me,True love has feelings,a tender feelings which are put in the human heart by a caring God. One of my favorite scripture in the Bible about love is 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 I know some of you are very familiar with this scripture.It says “Love is patient,love is kind.It does not envy,it does not boast.It is not proud,it is not rude.It is not self-seeking,it is not easily angered,it keeps no record of wrongs.Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.It always protects,always trusts,always hopes and always perseveres”. So perfect right?

True love takes time— time to know and time to grow.Knowing a person takes time and there is always “no shortcut”.Growing a relationship takes time, and God expects couples in love to “grow up”.Maybe that’s why God allow my past relationship to end,for me to figure out and prepare me for the BEST ONE ❤

Perhaps everybody needs to experience heartbreak to open their hearts and feel other things.Acceptance is the key.If you can’t accept reality,then you are going to stuck in that state until you’ll find the courage to accept how things turned out and let go of it. Not all of us get to have a happy endings. (Ano to fairytale lang ang peg?)

Always remember, there are far better things ahead of you and life doesn’t stop for anyone,not even for you.Divert your attention to something else. (Magpaganda ka ateng,magpa sexy,mag shopping,mag coffee2 dzaii or kuya malay mo mahanap mo siya sa tabi tabi lang).Don’t waste your time fantasizing a guy or a girl who doesn’t give a sh** about you.You deserve better and you’ll meet him or her soon…And when you meet the one,you’ll be glad that none of your past relationships worked out.

Being in love is NOT that easy.(You feel me,wag kayong ano). If there are things I’ve learned about love,it is to love someone without setting any expectations.Love them and make them as your inspiration.Do things that make them happy but not to the extent that you’ll give everything as in everything.But also,don’t expect them to do the same for you. Ikaw rin nasasaktan kapag nag expect ka Teh,been there,done that.Jumping to the next level would be tough.Being in a serious relationship is a big responsibility.It’s very risky,but you’ll know if someone is worth taking the risk. 😉