I’ve always believed in fate.Fate,in the sense that God destined people to meet one another,plans for situations to happen as they do,and that our decisions,through our own and up to our free will,will fall according to how they were meant to happen according to His plan.

I have always believed that God creates another person for you: another half,another piece of you. I always believe that the Lord knows what we need in a life partner. But of course, as a goal-oriented woman, I had created my own checklist of what I thought I needed in a man. (I created a perfect image of a man in my mind) and so for the past years I’ve searched for that “Perfect Man” I just wasn’t finding what I thought was right for me but I’m always coming out empty-handed.

When I was still praying for the man GOD will partner me with,the Lord and I will always have a conversations that goes “Lord if you will blessed me with a man that I will love for the rest of our lives I want him to be always faithful to you,I want him to fear you and love you with all his mind,body and soul cause I know when he has that qualities he will love me just the way HE loves you and if he is faithful to you I know he’ll be faithful to me”. But at the end of my prayers I always added “But Lord,if you’ll let me to be single forever,then let it be but please bless me in my career and my life” and I always end my prayer that way. But what’s good is that Jesus is always very patient in polishing every flaw,who knows what I truly need and who knows my love language better.

And so because God’s timing is always perfect,the time I felt my life was setting nicely,I got a permanent job,happy being single,happy to be with my family there I met a man who didn’t appear to be what I wanted at all. I thought I was in a place where I could be my own person and it was totally fine with me if I would end up like those other women (in short, matandang dalaga)😂

February 24,2019, I’ve met Adrian through facebook. He sent me a wave and I waved back.(May kahiwagaan talaga ang wave sa facebook😂) So alam niyo na guys…Tiwala lang malay niyo mag wave back siya🤣 Just kidding✌🏻Adrian was 5 years older than me and seemed a little eccentric,but kind. I was a little curious why he would want to talk to me but the conversation we started it was pure and true.No hiding,everything was shared. And so in the following days,when he chatted me again to say he had a nice time chatting with me, I was a little skeptical. I am still curious why he really wanted talking to me.Days gone…days gone…We became comfortable talking with each other though our way of communicating during those days was thru facebook. I wasn’t sure he “was the one” and at first didn’t fell like getting into romance. He wasn’t the man I envisioned sweeping off my feet. But because I enjoyed talking to him, I decided to continue our blossoming friendship. We both enjoyed our “friendly movie date”? (Friendly lang ba talaga?)hahaha, our constant communication which is according to him I am his “convo buddy” (Di nga?😂)

After what I felt like a blink of an eye,I realized that I’d spent majority of my time with him.Naturally, we both fell for each other. Started purely as friends until we fell in love with each other (But I don’t know about him hmmm 🤔) hahaha To be honest,it was kind of freaking me out. I knew to myself that I am falling for this guy and he was so open to me that he also felt the same way. I never intended falling in love again after my first relationship for almost 5 years didn’t work out. I already set my thought on loving myself and never enter into relationship again and to admit it, I was afraid… afraid of getting hurt and slowly moving on. I was happy already with what’s going on with my life until I met Adrian

But I knew it was God. It was always God…God was placing these man in my path so that I could stop and really process what was happening before my eyes. On a serious note, all of this are bound to happen in God’s perfect time♥️God saw something in us that we didn’t see in ourselves.That our vulnerabilities,our fearful souls,our tender hearts would find homes in one another. Naksssss♥️ That God created the two of us,so flawed and complex,and sewed the strings of our lives together at the specific time. (Mapapa Thank you Lord ka talaga) 🙏🏻 And so when I think of the two of us,think of our paths crossed at just the right moment,I think of how strange and wonderful it is that we fell in love.

Adrian teaches me the reality of life and the reality of love. That relationship isn’t a fairytale like I used to believe when I was a kid.That Love isn’t always the romantic one.That love is about ACCEPTING the person regardless of his/her past. That relationship is about TRUSTING and UNDERSTANDING even to the point of lowering your pride. That love is FORGIVING and ready to forget even though it broke you so many times. A man despite his life’s battle in the past is ready to move forward with a stronger heart because he knows God will always be on his side.

I thank GOD that He is truly faithful when He said, “Delight yourself to Me and I will give you the desires of your heart”. I Delighted myself in the Lord which I am now and forever will be and gave me WHAT HIS HEART DESIRED FOR ME. Not what I desired but what He desired for me. I desired for a man beyond perfect in my own imagination but the Lord desired for me a man that will teach me and open my eyes to life’s reality. And being true to His word,He faithfully delivered (through His own Will and Purpose) . Only to find out that I never ask the Lord to give me a man who will cook for me, do laundry for me, do clean the house, shower me with care and love (truly God is genius. I never asked but He gave me what I needed) Adrian cooks for me, do laundry for me and do clean the house, what a Blessed wife Am I!😍

Lord thank you for bringing Adrian into my life❤️Everyday is a humbling day and everyday is a joy to be with the man you desired me to be with.God knows better and He always delivers. It was indescribable proof that God is in charge and knows what’s right for me. That’s how faithful he is.We really just need to trust His timing.God is so good! There is always strength in waiting and trusting!

P.S.

Currently, happily married and both serving and praising our faithful GOD🙏🏻✨

#ADRIANFinallyFoundHisGRACE💍